Those of you who follow me on social media will be aware that I’m often kept remotely locked in chastity by a mysterious keyholder, who is also rather excellent at coming up with new and inventive ways to torment me. He was the one who introduced me to chaster.app, which I have in turn used to create my new #lockedbyswitch service, which gives boys the opportunity to have me as their not-always-benevolent keyholder.
I take great pride in being a chastity switch, domming locked is hot as hell, and telling my new locked boys that they are locked by a guy who is locked, by a keyholder who is ALSO locked (as my keyholder is) – well it’s just a bit of a mindfuck isn’t it?
Up until recently we had been using Chaster to manage my lock, with my release dependent on evil games of chance and regular tasks, similar to those that I unleash upon the subs I have locked myself. However, he recently decided to introduce an entirely new mechanic, borrowing heavily from the world of findom, but without a penny changing hands. More on that in a moment.
High security, zero access
When it comes to the actual security of my keys, I have had them locked in a 3D printed lockbox and secured by a bluetooth padlock, which is often flaky and requires a lot of messing about to connect correctly, as it isn’t really designed for this scenario. As the new mechanic above came in, the last few weeks we have used simple coded plastic locks. I have good self-control, but they’re not the most secure.
Today that changed significantly, as I took delivery of a Master Bluetooth Lockbox. This thing weighs a tonne, is practically indestructible, and is very much set up for the remote access control which is perfect for chastity.
It is also now entirely under my keyholder’s control. I set it up on his account, signed out and he reset absolutely everything. I realised I had basically bought an expensive lock, and gifted it to him with my keys inside, and he gave me a guest account with access locked out in return.
Following a few horny messages back and forth, and some (what I assume was) wilful misunderstanding – I had, in his eyes, begged for my guest account access to be revoked permanently. Which he did, and then rightfully pointed out that it was clearly what I wanted.
And so the terms of this new situation were set out. I am no longer able to unlock myself, I must rely on others to do so. A situation that I found unbelievably horny as a fantasy just yesterday, which has now become reality. As he said, clearly what I wanted. I just wasn’t quite expecting that YET.
Everything has its price, and today it has doubled
So, back to the findom mechanic. I have to hand it to my keyholder, he really knows how to craft something beautifully tailored to me and how my mind works – while also ensuring he has a billion different ways to fuck me up. I’m a data nerd and my dick is managed on a fucking SPREADSHEET. YES.
Simple explanation:
I earn points for being locked, and for carrying out tasks – the more intense the task, the more points I get. Some of these tasks are workouts, some are masochistic (remind me to tell you about my new nipple clamps…), some are geary, and others are challenges designed to make me hate any pleasure I might actually get. (4+ orgasms in less than two hours anyone? I CANNOT SURVIVE THAT. +22 points though…)
There’s also a menu of things I can buy with those points, and up until today that included the ability to unlock my own cage. I can, however, pay for someone else to do so. Other things on the menu include time spent unlocked, orgasms – and even just having to pay 1 point to get hard.
“That doesn’t sound too bad…” – yeah, there’s more…
So, everything does have a normal price. However these go up and down whenever my KH feels like it. He can make anything prohibitively expensive, or bring down the prices of things he wants to coerce me into doing. Needless to say, whatever I bought on offer will tend to come round and bite me in the arse, because while he’s fair – he’s rarely doing things to actually be nice to me. There will be a catch, and I will fail to spot it until it’s too late.
The next part is debt. Yes, I can go into debt – and if I do, all the prices get more expensive. He basically becomes my loan shark keyholder. I earn less for everything I do, and everything I want to buy gets pricier. I can buy an orgasm for 8 points right now, if I had a negative balance, the same orgasm costs 50.
“Don’t go into debt then!” you may say and shrug. Oh, I have no intention of doing so. However, it’s not always up to me. See… if I’m subbing and my dom does any of the things on the list, I STILL HAVE TO PAY.
Recall that I am not able to unlock my own lock. This means that I am reliant not only on visiting subs and Doms to actually unlock me, I am then also reliant on them not going overboard. Subs I’m obviously going to be fine with – they will do what I say. Some of the Doms I know though? When I get tied up, I cannot stop them doing what they want to do. And if they know about this system, and they feel like being a dick – then they can just unlock, relock, ruin and keep me uncaged until they drain my points balance to zero and beyond into debt. Remember that 50pt orgasm? Yep… that’s going to take me WEEKS to earn back.
Maybe I’ll just stay caged
One thing is quite clear. If I want to have some pleasure, it’s probably going to be done without the keys in sight. Even if I DO get a friend to unlock me, it costs points to even ask to get them a guest account – with no guarantee they’ll get it, it costs points to unlock, it costs points to get hard, to be out of my cage for ten minutes, for an hour, it costs to have a ruined orgasm, it costs to have a proper one. And at any point I could get tied down and have my points zeroed with freedom I desperately do not want. Meanwhile, the big points come from me pre-agreeing a lengthy spell without an unlock. 31 days nets me the jackpot right now.. 250 sweet sweet points. However, that does mean those keys stay sealed away throughout.
I’d just pay for many caged orgasms using my vibe wand… but it broke the other day- NIGHTMARE. So I need to buy a Doxy. They’re expensive though, and I just spent a hell of a lot on a lockbox that I don’t even own anymore. So maybe I’ll have to wait.
Though if you liked this, you can always help me with my funds by buying from Regulation with my code SLDN2023, awesome electro stuff from Estim Systems (UK/EU / Everywhere Else) or just whacking me a few quid on Ko-Fi. Go on, get this boy his ruin.
In conclusion, yep- fucked.
I am excited for this new development, and the permanence of this new situation. Joining a bank account I budget fanatically, I now have a chastity account, which I will have to manage even more carefully – inflation is very much on the rise. Sometimes as much as 5000% in an hour – and the interest rate on those loans is eye-watering!
I’ll update more as we go, but I’m very much living this – and I hope you can take some inspiration from my situation and my genuinely fantastic keyholder.
On that… remember #lockedbyswitch earlier? How about getting locked up by that very same fantastic keyholder? He’s got a fiendish lock for you to stumble into… right here.